RUOK Day | Check in with family & friends

[Swannie]

Guys today is RUOK day, please ask your mates are they OK, it's alright to ask for help.

Guys, there is a lot of mate ship on this forum and equally people doing it tough, take the time to reflect and offer support

Having a conversation about can and will save life's.

Swannie

[KingBilly]

Had two texts from mates this morning.  A very worthy program as blokes tend to bottle things up too much.

KB

[baldheadedgit]

I'm good...

I got no mates....

BHG

[MarkGU]

I'm good...

I got no mates....

BHG

i've got no mates either Steve.....cant afford them 

[cruisindub]

No one phoned me......     Not even a text.

Maybe they are telling me something.?

[fuji]

All good here in Mount Hope.

[Nay-DMAX]

All good here too Swannie thanks for putting the post though and it is so true ask for help or chat to someone if you need too.

[Hairs]

All good here Swannie 

And R U O K?

[speewa158]

RUwhat  , lm OK so lm told  , lm also told     ,     put down the  & back away , yeah    like that's going to happen . Then it's put your hands behind your back & don't move  .    You know the drill from there   . But lm OK really '





Hppe your not getting the wrong idea out there ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,l really have no idea


               

[Bird]

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[Foo]

All good here, be better if I was retired. But how are you?

Foo



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[Bird]

All good here, be better if I was retired. But how are you?

Foo

Better if I won the 10 mill last night...

[Bird]

Take 5 mins out of ya day...

Call a mate you haven't heard from in a while.

Or shoot em an email or text..

[D4D]

Take 5 mins out of ya day...

Call a mate you haven't heard from in a while.

Great idea!

[westvic]

No problems asking and have had plenty of blokes check in with me  (thank you gents)

Reckon the problem now is getting blokes to be able to say "no not all right" rather than "yep all good"

[Bird]

Reckon the problem now is getting blokes to be able to say "no not all right" rather than "yep all good"

Thats ALWAYS been a challenge..

[Bird]

Next event: 8 September 2022

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[Bird]

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Give a mate a call that you havent spoken to in a while.

[Hairs]

A great reminder to catch up with someone who you haven't spoken to for awhile.


You don't use magic to disappear, ya use a 4x4 & Swag.

[Foo]

My brain is mush, so hope that you never need to decide whether too turn off the life support for a loved one or! 

Foo

[Traveller]

I cannot imagine how hard that would be, I hope I never have to do it, and I feel sad that you have had to go through it.

All I can do is say that I feel some of your pain, and hope that time will reduce some of your hurt.  Remember though that we are all thinking of you.

[Pottsy]

Thoughts are with you Foo, the toughest of decisions one can ever make. All the Advanced care directives, medical power of attorneys, DNR orders do not make the decision easier.

[Foo]

I cannot imagine how hard that would be, I hope I never have to do it, and I feel sad that you have had to go through it.

All I can do is say that I feel some of your pain, and hope that time will reduce some of your hurt.  Remember though that we are all thinking of you.

Thoughts are with you Foo, the toughest of decisions one can ever make. All the Advanced care directives, medical power of attorneys, DNR orders do not make the decision easier.

Thanks for that and this is very true. . 

Rightly or wrongly my thought process is the same for our furry mates = if we let them suffer we hard considered selfish or cruel but with our family it is viewed the opposite way and that thinking is so screwed up and wrong.

Foo

[Bird]

Thinkin of ya Foo.... ya got plenty of people here and elsewhere ya can talk to..
make use of em if ya feel ya need to.