Glad to hear that she's OK Mr MB.
My $0.02:
* I'd skip the karts. Sliding around on a cart in the wet is great fun. Sliding around in 2 ton of car is a completely different feeling. If she was really serious about developing her driving craft it would probably be a good place to start, but as a casual lesson I'd skip it completely.
* Likewise (contentious opinion ahead), I'd skip the advanced driver training. Obviously you know her attitude better than I, but at her age any sort of advanced driving course would have simply egged me on. It would have been further confirmation that I had much, much more skill than the rest of the plebeian road users.
* I'd make her drive around in the car as it is. Replace the lights, sure, but leave the panel damage. I'd probably even mask off the front corner and spray it flat black or some other colour that stands out. Tell her that you just can't afford to fix it properly at the moment, so this will stop the rust. Leave it a month or two, then fix it. As a young bloke the shame of having to parade around in a damaged car made me think twice.
* Her car on a wet skid pan (or as per your original plan, a wet paddock) would be the best idea I think. Set up some cones or cardboard boxes (pile of sand in the bottom of them to keep them in position) and get her to run through a few scenarios. There's nothing like that really give a feel for what can happen on the road. She probably won't learn skid control in one afternoon, but she'll definitely come away with an appreciation of how a little less speed can change the outcome.
* She'll grow out of it as Mace says. Heck, I did (eventually). You look back now on how you used to behave on public roads and shudder. At the time, you honestly didn't believe that you were being such a toolbag.
* Good on you for trying to address the situation in a positive way that increases her skill and ownership of the situation, rather than just blowing your top and taking the car off her.
* Funny story about Darryl Beattie. Man can ride.
Good luck - I'm dreading going through the same thing myself in 14 years.
Cheers,
Matt
